Before we discover the joy of sex and intimacy with our partners, we learn how our bodies give us pleasure. Studies estimate that about 90% of men and 70% of women masturbate regularly.
But how often do we share this experience with our partners? Masturbation doesn't have to be a solo. In fact, it's probably one of the hottest activities when it comes to working with partners.
By mutually masturbating, you can:
> Find out what your loved one likes
> Show your partners how to handle your business
> Easy orgasm synchronization
> Like being an exhibitionist and/or voyeur
> get out of the car without the risk of pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases
Mutual masturbation can be accomplished in a variety of combinations.
Partners can jump at the same time or take turns to do each other. One partner can do all the work, while the other partner enjoys it. You can put on a show for your loved one or sit back and enjoy the view. In group settings, whether you're a voyeur, an exhibitionist or both, the combination is even more.
Mutual masturbation is one of the best times to break toys. Dudes, this is your opportunity to try out a masturbation sleeve, such as the Tenga Flex, while the partner sucks on a nipple or points a finger at the ass. You can also choose from a variety of skin tones or explore the vibrations using the Fun Factory Cobra Libre II.
Women, ask your partner to massage the vibrator or G-spot toy on you while wiping the clitoris. The slim copy mini is hit in the right place while leaving room for you to use your hand on your own with a large vibrator. If you like smooth stainless steel, ask your partner to use Njoy Pure Wand – perfect for squirting! Or, if you're looking for hands-free satisfaction, give him a dual stimulation vibe like Jopen Amour and lie back and enjoy the only vibrating glass dual stimulator on the market!
You can learn a lot from watching your loved one go about their business, from the speed of their strokes to the circles around their clitoris. One of the best things about mutual masturbation is the chance to get a chance to get a lover out of reality. Verbal feedback combined with hands-on demonstrations will deepen your sexual bond and enhance communication. This is your lover's body and a great way to get to know each other.
Tease your partner by letting them watch you masturbate. Don't let them touch you or yourself. Or, tie up your partner and make fun of them, taking care not to let them come soon. On a night of teasing and denial, this can make for great foreplay or the main course.
Because there is no exchange of bodily fluids and no risk of pregnancy, mutual masturbation is one of the safest ways to get off in the company of a partner. If you are helping a partner, wearing gloves can make the game safer. In combination with lube, these isolation methods can feel almost as good as bare skin.
When to attempt mutual masturbation
> while watching or watching porn.
> when telling or reading dirty stories.
> When one partner causes more "mood" than the other.
> When you are not ready to "go all out.".
> When you absolutely need to get off!