A significant amount of people enjoy parties, free booze, free music and the opportunity to let their hair down and be free from all worries, at least for a few hours. Orgy is more than free booze and music, there is also free sex, you might wonder what differences exist between orgy and parties that has people having sex. Well, the difference is that in the case of orgy, the sole reason for gathering is for sex, unlike parties where people start having sex when they are drunk and their inhibition gets lowered, this is usually a small percentage of those at the party, not everyone.
Orgy is a group sex party, multiple people are invited to have unrestrained, fully consented sex and all other related activities with one another. The term ‘orgy’ is sometimes referred to as ‘swingers party' as well, because most the guests tend to have more fluid preferences when it comes to whom they have sex with. This actually makes for more fun at an orgy. For it to be an orgy, you must have at least five people involved, because technically, three participants would simply make it a threesome and four, would be foursome. So five upward, then the party is read to start.
Orgy has it origin from the old civilization of the Greek and Roman world. The adherents of the god Dionysus ( referred to as Bacchus by the Romans) the god of wine, come together to participate in unrestrained sexual activities in order to get closer to their god, the release their sexual energies in order to be able to have an empty heart that can now be filled by the energy of the god. These days, when people come together to have an orgy, it is to enjoy themselves and release all stress and worries rather than to pay homage to a deity, but then, it could still be both.
You are here reading this because you are interested in organising or participating in an orgy. This can make you quite anxious and afraid, you do not have to be, as long as you take the necessary precautions and made thorough arrangement. To prepare you, I will be sharing with you, tips to organising or attending an orgy.
Tips for organising or attending an orgy
Orgy is an event that involves a several people, even your regular parties require preparation and organisation, It is safe to say that an orgy requires more deliberateness. Safety and health of the participants must be prioritized.
- Hygiene and health of the participants:standard orgies have an arrangement to ensure that new additions are tested before they are allowed to participate in the activities. There are now several tests for sexually transmission diseases that generate results in few minutes. It is important that all participants are vetted before they are allowed to join others. If you are attending an orgy, and this is not a priority, you should be beware and hold your health above all pleasure. You would even be able participate freely if you do not have to worry about the hygiene and health of others in the room. Condoms and other protective instruments should be provided.
- Background research before attending or organising an orgy: always ensure that you know the organizer of the orgy or know someone that has a knowledge of whom the person is, and if possible, thanks to modern technology, go online and research them. Know if this organizer has hosted orgies before and if it was safe to go their party. As an organiser yourself, do background research on everyone that you are inviting to your sex party. You should know, if anyone of the invitees will pose a threat to others. Sexual identities of your guests should be made known so that anyone will not be disrespected.
- Set boundary to follow:before agreeing to a sex party, know the boundary in which the sexual activities will be. What kind of kinks will be expected or required. People have different sort of preferences and fetishes, it is important that you know if you will be comfortable in that situation. Also as an organiser, ensure that your guests know what is expected of them and also as a good host, get to know what your guests would like to do and find a way to set a common ground for everyone to enjoy themselves. The guests should know these rules and work with them. BDSM is a kink that some people find unpleasant while others find it pleasurable, some guests may want to participate in it, and would want to do it during the orgy. At the same time, you may have some guests that would not be interested and would not even want to see BDSM in action, as a host, it is your responsibility to find a way to balance the scale.
- Consent is required:in order to avoid an forceful situation, a verbal consent must be required from all the participants. And, before the introduction of any new activity, verbal consent must be given by all participants. This will enable you to avoid any legal issues that may occur as this may be termed forced participation. The ground rule must be set that there should be no coercion in any way. The guests should be aware of the penalties for going against these rules, that way, there will not be a case of plausible deniability , where a guest would say they were not aware of the rules or guidelines, if any matter should arise.
- Calm and soothing ambience:the environment must be made relaxing, as an organiser, you should ensure that the location of your orgy is ideal, your guests must be relaxed and not feel judged or watched. People are more likely to let their hair down if they do not fear being judged. All guests should at the beginning, mingle amongst themselves, get to know each other. There should be no pressure on anyone in a way, drinks and foods can be served to get everyone relaxed. The arrangement of the room should take away all forms of formalities. This goes a long way into getting people relaxed. As a guest yourself, get comfortable with the other guests before moving on to any sexual activity.
- Be open minded: whether you are the organiser or an invited guest, you just keep an open mind, people come in different body types, genders and personalities. It can be uncomfortable for everyone if you are not open minded. You can maintain your boundary and still be open to people to preferences that are opposite yours. The essence of orgy is self expression, no one should be made to feel less of themselves in order to satisfy other people. Respecting other people include respecting their identities and preferences.
- Avoid getting intoxicated:intoxication can affect your judgement, it might affect your state of mind if you participate in an activity that you normally would not have if you were not high, to ensure that all participation is as you want, avoid getting drunk or high. Take a glass of water between alcohol and avoid using too much drugs that can affect your ability to think.
What do I need for orgy
- Location: a well ventilated room, wide enough that guests will not bump into each other as they go about their business. But do not restrict yourself to this, orgies are organised at pool sides, private beach and other open spaces that have restricted access. The most important thing is the safety of the participants because some or all of them can be high profile members of the society. Whether it is a room or an open space, it must be safe.
- Surplus condoms and lubes: there should be a lot of condoms made available, this will encourage your participants to practice safe sex. The condoms should be placed in an easily accessible place that all guests can easily reach it without difficulty. Lube should be made available as well.
- Sex toys: these add more adventure to the activities seeing as sex toys are quite versatile and can be used in various ways, vibrators, dildos, cock rings, chastity cages, and other devices can be made available for the pleasure of the guests. Ensure these toys are cleaned before and after use.
- Drinks and snacks: while some orgies start straight to sex, a good orgy, especially among strangers should start with some socialising, drinks and snacks should be available for the guests, this will allow everyone to be calm and relax better, than if they go straight to sex, that can be quite jaunting for a newbie.
Some Perfect Sex toys for Orgy
There are some perfect sex toys that will be perfect for a sex party. They can easily be shared, but the best things for an orgy is to get more than one of each sex toy, so that guests can have at least one toy to each person.
FUN FACTORY MANTA : this toy is a vibrating stroker, it can used to stimulate the stroke the penis, and can be used to edge the orgasm as well. It has powerful motor that gives steady sensation of being stroked by a vibrating hand. It is quite perfect for use during orgy.
MAGIC WAND MINI: this is a very powerful vibrator with strong motor. It has 3 levels of intensity can be easily regulated with the buttons on the handle. It is cordless and will not cause any obstruction during use.
CAGNIK CELLMATE 2.0: This is Chastity Cage that has app controlled features, it can be programmed to give electric shock to the wearer and this can be controlled by another person with the app. This is a chastity cage can be used in an orgy on guests that are interested in some dominance and submission play.
Fun Factory NÕS Vibrating Cock Ring: An advanced cock ring with two arms that stimulates the clitoris during sex. It is made to accommodate penis of various sizes and fit comfortably. It also has motor in it that vibrates at different levels of intensities.
As an organiser of the event, ensure that all sex toys are cleaned before and after use. Dirty and unhygienic environment can be discouraging to participants and they may not want to come again for another sex party.
Apps where you can meet people online for an orgy
Orgi App -. It is an online app to meet people for orgy. It can connect you to meet people around you that are interested in orgies, couples and singles are on the site to meet up with others for different types of sex arrangements.
Tinder – this app is quite popular for dating and hook-up, the meet up for orgy is a feature that is still in beta stage. You will be able to meet people up for scheduled meetings.
CONCLUSION
Sex parties are quite exciting and relaxing. Everyone is unified in the single purpose of sexual gratification even since the day of the deity worship to this present age. There is no judgment, you can practice any fetish that you have and also get to participate in the fetish of other people. Attending an orgy and participating should be voluntary, and should be done with an open mind. Above all, your health and security is paramount to you, do not take unnecessary risks for people that you may not meet again and even if you do, they are still going to go on with their lives if you make any mistake that affects you. Therefore, even while seeking for pleasure, always keep it in mind that you need to protect yourself, both your mental and physical health.