I get this question every time I mention it a discussion with new people. I don’t know for sure if it’s because Jerk Off Instructions are not very common or if it’s just my luck to always need to explain what it is. Which ever one it is, I’m always too happy to help people learn something new that could just be what they need to spruce up their sex life. In this article you I will explain in depth what Jerk Off Instructions are and other tidbits you should know about this subject.
For starters, Jerk Off Instructions is the full meaning of JOI, which you may or may not have encountered on the internet while indulging your other porn fantasies. If you do come across it now after reading this article, at least you’ll know what it means even if you don’t join the bandwagon.
Now to the creamy stuff. Jerk Off Instructions is simply when a male/female instructor instructs men or women on how to masturbate using visual or verbal means. In other words, Jerk Off Instructions is when someone is helping you get off by telling you what to do, where to touch, how to touch a particular spot, what to think about and when to cum. Generally, because there exists an endless list and variation of masturbation instructions; people tend to lump JOI pornography into a separate box. But a lot of folks that are into female domination would beg to differ. What’s the argument? The fact that stroking one’s self in front of a woman puts you and your climax in her control. Hence, the opinion that masturbation, when controlled is a undetachable aspect of any femdom relationship and female supremacy.
If you are reading all of this for the first time, it would probably interest you to note that JOI is more or less a gate pass to the whole female domination space for a lot of dudes. While guys like to feast their eyes on various types of porn, it doesn’t take long to find out that being told what to do by a smoking hot female is even more pleasurable and thrilling.
Try to visualize this and I bet you’re going to love the possibility. Imagine stroking yourself to a hot, bossy female and then blowing your load in the most powerful orgasm ever. Pretty mind-blowing huh? That being said, I would be doing you a disservice if I didn’t point out that female supremacy in JOI is a bit different from a regular JOI session. The difference is that in femdom, it’s all about the Mistress and not you. The most important is what please her. Not you, sorry. That’s just how the game goes. Femdom relationships in JOI is sort of like a soft type of BDSM in which your Dominatrix relishes watches you doing exactly as she orders you and determining when you come and when you don’t.
I wrote this article for adults, so, I’m guessing every one of my readers know the few seconds before a man comes is the most sensitive. This is the point a seasoned Dominiatrix will exert her supremacy by humiliating you. This could be done with expletives or hitting your balls with a part of her body or an object set aside for this reason. There’s no one way to how this works. A femdom JOI session can be spiced up with several methods. I for one, prefer, the blend of a femdom play where all the slave gets to do is stroke their dick and wonder what’s going to happen next. I think it’s super-hot! I would know because I have experimented a lot and done a lot of research.
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One JOI scene that’s burned to my memory forever is a video which had well-hung dudes forced to eat some warm, dewy cum by a femdom. I’ve never been able to get it out of my head. Seducing a slave with large, mouth-watering boobs and then making him lick up his own sperm with his tongue is an incredibly powerful feeling.
Most guides tend to imply that in any relationship, the male partner is or should be the dominant one but people are beginning to open their eyes to a new world of intense ecstasy that comes from a woman taking full control. Here are some common ideas you will love.
- Sissy Play
Here, you get to dress up in women’s clothing such as stockings, garter belters, frilly underwear and so on. Your Mistress can choose to reward your obedience with a praise, something nice and lacy or just simply punish you by reminding you of how weak and pretty you are. Don’t panic. You just might love it, who knows. I’ve heard guys who have experienced this type of play gush about how liberating and fun it was to not shop for themselves for once.
I’m one of those people who think everyone should try bondage once in a while and the selection of options for this is rich. This goes for how to bind too. Your Mistress can bind your wrists and ankles behind your back or together in front of you. If you have restraints under the bed, this can be really helpful for your play. Some of the other types of bondage devices a Mistress will use on you are blindfolds, gags (there are dick-shaped ones too), nipple clamps and ankle spreaders.
- Foot Worship
Nothing is nearly as compliant and adoring as getting your feet kissed or licked and vice versa. Now imagine if your Mistress is putting on sexy thigh or knee-high boots. In between your adulation of her foot she pushes you away slowly with a heeled foot and may even kick or prod you gently. Highly arousing!
- Impact Play
Here also, the play is all up to your femdom. She could decide to spank with her hands. She could also decide to use floggers, furry paddles or an old-fashioned cane. This is one of my top recommendations for femdom JOI.
- Cock and Ball Bondage
I know you probably flinched mentally but cock and ball bondage are not as extreme as it sounds. If your Mistress is experienced, she would start with a stretchy penis ring just for sizing things up down there. When you are able to get comfy wearing it, she can now delicately measure for a penis ring made out of stone, metal or glass. From there you both can move on to multiple rings.
The best form of cock and ball bondage is the cage-like one which your femdom will wrap around your ‘equipment’ to stop you from achieving full erection.
- Teasing
Who doesn’t want a little teasing from time to time? Definitely not you! Your Mistress can tease you by asking you not to get a boner, touch you or utter a sound. And then she can go on to push you to the brink if she likes. Teasing could be in a variety of ways: a feather tickler for light caresses in your erogenous zones, telling you she is going to touch you and then holding back. Pure heaven and hell!
- Humiliation
This is the one play not a lot of slaves like to submit to. Chances are, you may be one of them. But humiliation is a common theme in femdom relationships and JOIs. Some of the things your Mistress may do is tell your dick is small even though it’s quite impressive. She may tell you your fucking game is trash as well so don’t take it personal.
Other forms of humiliation include making you wear certain accessories or clothing items in public, wear women’s perfume or perform other feminine acts like twerking or wearing makeup. I mentioned licking your own cum before so, I’m not going to mention it again. This is pretty much a sneak peek into some of the outrageous things you may have to do to please her.
- Manners
As you’ve probably deduced, femdom is all about letting a supreme female control your desires and actions. One of the ways your Mistress is going to do this is by making you show some manners. You will not be allowed to touch her without permission. When you do, you have to say a proper thank you for the opportunity. You can’t cum without her say so either.
Every single act of yours that disappoints her must be followed by profuse apologies from you. Plus, she may ask you to address her in a certain way, which you must do.
- Cuckolding
For me, this is one of the most twisted forms of femdom JOI and you’ll be amazed how many men love it! This fetish involves watching your Mistress get some hard fucking from other men; though, I must confess, you have to be really into it to actually enjoy it.
If you both are practicing light femdom, your Mistress would simply have to pretend she’s texting dirty with another guy. Her job is to adequately give detail of she’s meeting and where. This could also take the form of actual public flirting.
- Orgasm Control
Orgasm control is by far one of the most popular ideas for femdom Jerk Off. It’s exactly what you’re thinking. Your domme gets to decide if you get your nut or not. Haha! Some of the toys she may use are a chastity belt or cock cage. Pain also works fine for some domes so get ready for that too.
- Service
This is the final idea for this article and there are lot of methods involved that are two-parts cute. Service involves doing things for your Mistress like giving her a massage, shaving her body, cleaning her body, cooking and serving her, mixing her drinks and so on. I don’t think there could ever be a shortage of things to do with this idea.
I hope you find this compilation sufficient enough to take your pick from. As much as I would advise you follow as instructed, don’t allow yourself to be too boxed in. Try to be creative and interpret these ideas however you like. Don’t hesitate to go all out with props and costumes if you want. Moving forward, I’m now going to give you a naughty list of femdom scenes you might love. This would give you am idea of what to try when you start out.
- Cop and Rubber
- Student and Teacher
- Pet Play
- Boss and Underling
For punishments, expect the following from your domme and more:
- Spanking and Impact Play
- Kneeling on a Pencil
- Chastity Belt
- Cold Shower
- Binding of Hands
- Exercise
- Hard tasks
- Standing on Tip-Toe
- Holding up Nickels