Blow job is one of the kinkiest ways to pleasure your partner, and even a lot of people get satisfaction from giving oral sex rather than receiving it. Contrary to the belief that oral sex is quite derogatory and unappealing to the senses of someone of high class, this is only relative and any form of sex can be considered to be anything, it is the consent and pleasure that matters.
Getting on your knees or any other comfortable position, to get your lips around the penis of your man is actually one of the most sensual aspect of love making, you can even make the whole sexual experience about the blowjob, and you will leave your man well satisfied.
I will be sharing some tips on how to give the best blow job
- Set the mood
Just like regular penis in vagina sex, there is nothing bad with setting the mood for an oral sex, getting a nice soothing music on, something relaxing and that can even help you set a pace as you suck the penis. A make out session will not be bad to add, to get the whole deal started. Kissing and caressing your partner in their erogenous zones, helps to get them relaxed and aroused. You would know you are doing it right with the bulge you feel in their groin from your ministration.
- Get undressed if you can
If you are both in a private place where you can get rid of your clothes, then do so, this will add to your pleasure as you will be freer, there is no restriction or hiding once you both are undressed. Keeping on your clothes can put a limit on your mind, except if it is a kink you are both trying out.
- Get comfortable
After you have sufficiently got your man to a point where you can take things further, slowly go down to the actual prize. Ensure both of you are comfortable and have taken a position that will be comfortable for the duration of the blow job, you do not want to spend the rest of the day or night, nursing a neck cramp. That can put in a dent in the experience.
- Maintain Eye contact
You can try maintaining eye contact with your pattern if you can, this give you a feeling of confidence and also increases the arousal for your man, seeing you taking his penis in your mouth. You would also be able to see the power you wield over him as his eyes glaze over in pleasure.
- Use your tongue to play
You can use your tongue to play on the shaft, dip the tip of the tongue into the dick hole, this can be quite arousing and pleasurable, use this tip also, to tickle the glans all the way to the frenulum which is the string-like part that is where the glans links with the shaft of the penis. Use your tongue on this part, use your tongue to create different saliva trails along the shaft of the penis, trust me that this will make it easier to take the whole dick in your mouth.
- The mouth comes in
With the saliva that you have lubed up the penis in, it should go into your mouth easily. When you have taken the whole penis in your mouth, you should set a slow and smooth pace in the beginning. A choking and fast motion would give the man the idea that you are not enjoying what you are doing, and your aim is for him to cum as fast as possible, so you could be done. A blowjob is meant to be savored by both you, the giver and the man, the receiver. Take your time and do not rush. Feel and enjoy the expression.
When you are doing it right, you will know from his reaction, he will not able be to resist thrusting out.
- Get your teeth out of the way
You might think the is hard to do, but it is not. When you let your lips and tongue do the work, your teeth disappears, without any form of conscious action from you. Forming your lips into a circle, pushing the teeth back, and then you are able to bob on the dick without biting or scratching the body.
- Let your vocal cords play a part
There are sounds that you can make as you suck the dick that give the whole act more thrill, making mmm, hoommm sounds create a vibration in the mouth that send thrills into the penis. This is your own personal vibrator. Do this with subtlety, or you run the risk of making it too loud and distracting, the essence is to send a thrill into the penis and not for your partner. Overly loud sounds like those in porn videos can seem fake and cause your partner to lose interest in the sex.
- Use your hands
Getting your hands into the mix, use your hands to stroke the penis as you suck the top of the penis. Ensure that you use as much saliva as you can produce, there is nothing like too much saliva during a blowjob, because a dried out penis is hard to suck successfully. Sucking or stroking a dry penis can lead to irritation on the skin of the penis, so ensure you lube up with saliva and suck or stroke at the same time. Using your hands also gives you a chance to relax your mouth, sucking for a long time can put a strain on your mouth muscles and jaws.
How to deep throat
Deep throating is a technique of getting the dick all the way in the mouth and going down towards the throat. Men might find it pleasurable to have all the shaft shoved down the throat, but you might not find it fun because of the gag reflex. Aside from the gag reflex, going all the way down on a dick can give you a suffocation fright, that moment when you feel like you are about to suffocate. The best thing to do in this case, that will make your partner feel like you have their dick all the way down the throat, is to direct the trajectory of the penis towards the roof of your mouth. When the head of the penis, which is the glans, touches the roof of the mouth and goes on to the shaft, it gives feeling of the penis in a tight canal just as every man would imagine the throat would be, even if they have received an actual deep throating before. Every man except maybe an anatomy expert, but then again, when you are giving good head, all logical reasoning leaves the man, his head is in cloud.
How to know when to stop a blowjob
A well carried out blow job can be the whole deal, and if that is all what could be done, your man will still be satisfied, and you could continue your oral ministration till he cums. If you want more, and the oral sex was just the foreplay, from that position, you can stand upright either to straddle your man and ride that dick or scoot over for him to penetrate you with his penis, and you can as well guide him towards your lower region for him to do to you, as you have done to him.
If you decide to go on to blow him till he cums, and you do not wish to have him cum in your mouth, once you notice he is close, you can switch to hand job and have him release his man juice on your breast, chest and any other part of the body that you find enticing. But, if you do not mind having his juice in your mouth, as you notice that he is close, you do not want to reduce the momentum at this point. Suck faster and increase the speed of everything else you are doing with your tongue, especially those things that he enjoys. Welcome his warm man juice in to your mouth as you do this. Either swallow or spit out, but spit it out discreetly.
TIPS TO NOTE BEFORE GIVING A BLOWJOB
Disregard any image that has been imprinted in your mind, as to what sucking a dick is all about. From porn, you have probably seen the perfect dick and the perfect mouth. You would see smooth penises, with a well shaped glans and smooth shaft all the way down to the balls. This is not always the case, the penis of a man is just like every other features that he has, it is unique in its own way, the shape, girth or length of a penis is unique to each man and accepting this can help you navigate better and know that some shapes and sizes might take getting used to.
The odor from the genitals can be surprising to you, but every man has his own musk, that is based on what he eats and his personal hygiene. Even with the most hygienic person, there is still a certain musk that comes from the genitals, which is the man’s unique scent. You might even find this musk arousing due to the pheromones present in sweat. If you are not comfortable with how your man smells at the moment, probably due to the day’s activities, you can advise him to take a bath before the whole adventure starts, a cleaner body would allow you to express your fantasies without restrictions.
Semen tastes differently from man to man, this taste is based on diet, mostly and lifestyle. If you would like to help your man improve the taste of his semen, you can incorporate fruits and more water into his diet, this will definitely help his semen tastes better.
HEALTH RISKS OF ORAL SEX
It is important to note that there are still health risks from oral sex, and just because there is penetration into your vagina does not change the fact that sexually transmitted infections can still be in action. Some infections can still be transferred from one person to the other from only skin on skin contact. Herpes is an example of these. Chlamydia and Gonorrhea can still infect your throat.
A lovely looking package that you see, does not mean the man is free of infections, there are several sexually transmitted infections that do not have symptoms that you could observe from looking at it. There are clean looking men that you could not have guessed that they would have lesions and sores on their penis, once you see this on a penis, do not be clouded by your attraction to the person, lesions and sores are symptoms of infections, you should not bring that to your mouth, under no circumstances.
For the case of penises that do not look diseased, you still need to protect yourself. There are dental dams designed and produced for this purpose. Dental dams are protective barriers designed to prevent you from getting infected during oral sex. Flossing and brushing can create tiny cuts in your gum that might be an avenue for bacteria and viruses to travel into your blood stream. With the dental dams in place, you will be able to prevent such transference. Dental dams can a bit expensive, to save cost, You can make use of flavored condoms to protect yourself from getting infections from giving a blowjob. Wear a condom on the penis before sucking, there are flavored condoms that will not give you the aftertaste from the latex material used in producing the condom.
Conclusion
A blowjob is quite exciting and there are very few men that would not enjoy it. It is a kink that is enjoyed by a lot of men, regardless of their sexuality. Whenever you are trying to switch things up, giving a good head is never a bad idea. Even if it is just a one-night stand, giving the perfect blow job can make the man wishing for me. The power you command over the man as you have his penis in between your lips is so great, you could probably get him to do whatever you want at that moment. Always keep in mind that oral sex is not without its risks, take this in to consideration for all your encounters, especially if you do not have a single partner. Using sex toys can increase the interest of blowjob, check The Best Sex Toys For Oral Sex That Gives The Same Feeling As A Blowjob